Saturday, February 19, 2011

marriage knot parents very tired

Son has just entered the marital the palace, I finally get how the supra shoes introduction a little rest a while la, these days is driving me messing silly.

Originally, children's marriage is their own affairs. They have entered into an adult, and can completely independent of their marriage affairs, can worry about the affected is their parents family.

Ordinarily, wedding is just a formality. Also don't know compatriots from what when begin, put our wedding got so complex that these complex about is what parents hardship for interconnections, always worry about what mishap or a blemish on the falling regret.

Americans traditionally very exquisite form of marriage, it seems that it is received marriage certificate wasn't enough, must let your neighbors, relatives and friends to come for dinner and do a witness, that is real married, this process, must have decent grand.

Think about 30 years ago, when I was almost 20 years dreaming, wedding by parents hand hold, haven't think what happened, just one not careful be married. The next day, the daughter-in-law discotheque, I still want to go to school, just as it is home to a family so by their parents, to host!

However, when our marriage than the old strive for son director of the hawthorn love want to pure many, the marriage and process, from blind date, engaged to marry into the house, city the entire daughter-in-law parents advocate, feel very easily.

Keep son square know parents grace - this saying is not common, it really recognizes the parents for the children about the affected dedication. This spirit, also only in you become involved parents worry, truly realize. Someone said, today's wedding find our company, hire on wedding fleet, place on forced jollity, a dinner will do! Things said that simple, operate up really quite difficult. He said a dinner right, who this please without please arrive? What humanistic shouldn't please, in the banquet preparatory insufficiency of don't please from arrive? The guests were invited to sit above the salt, which among which sat Lord accompany? In what grades of restaurant something class dish? How called didn't disrespect? This is indeed a very nerve-racking affair.

Someone says, 30 years ago wedding, shouldn't be so complicated! No car, no wedding company. In my opinion, is far from such, that age wedding, for our parents worry involvement was not a bit after today. For then material relatively poor, mo said pockets without money, is relatives and friends to lend you money, where to buy things? That is the era of planned economy, buy oil to cut meat will show your ticket supply, buy a bike also get alone.so plead, etc. Redeemed Wedding scene although no today so grand, but it must be a dinner, eat well, is difficult make.

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